H 5years ago had a short term EA that turned physical. I found out and tore the OW a new one on fb message. Her DH had suspicions too but she had deleted my H off of her fb page so he only knew my H from first name and couldn't contact me. He intercepted the message I sent her (I was very drunk) and they moved away very shortly after and I assumed made a go of things.
Me and H also tried again and put it behind us.
For years now since finding out I fantasized over how I would confront her and what I would say and do, usually horrible nasty words.
Today the day finally came, me and H were out celebrating our anniversary and I noticed a lady kept turning her head behind her to look at me. I caught her eye and realized who it was after a while She looked so sad and like a dear caught in the headlights. I waited until she looked at me again and I politely smiled at her and waved!
WTF....
She gave me a slight smile and nodded her head.
Did I just do a grown up thing there?
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after 5 years of imagining the scenario I saw the OW
sunshinerain · 10/05/2016 22:55
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