I am recently seperated....tail end of last year. Was a long time coming due to 2 affairs but I finally got things sorted and the strength from a close friend to leave.
I thought I was strong but the last few months have been so hard. I have two kids and adjusting to being a single mum to two with a full time shift job has been difficult. Thought it would be fine and just go with the flow. I was very wrong.
Still very emotional about things. Not about missing DH as I am so glad he's out the picture. Well as much as he can. He's moved on with another woman (so much for being distraught but that's another story) he's not pulling his weight kids wise and if you ask me is acting like a young free and single man with two inconvenient kids.
What I am worried about is am I ever going to meet Anyone else? I don't want any more kids. That is a definite no. But what if the next guy I meet wants kids. How could that work out?
And how do I meet someone the same age as me and tell them I have two kids. Will they not run a mile???
I feel so lost and alone. I don't really have any friends and someone who I counted as someone I could be with isn't treating me the way I deserve. I really care for him but in being used and just need the courage to cut the strings so to speak. But then I will be trully alone.....
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Dontknow2016 · 09/05/2016 00:03
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