One of my friends has recently started seeing a new partner. As a result, I have hardly seen her (which is ok, I understand that this happens with new relationships.)
She texted me a few weeks ago to ask if I would like to meet up for lunch. As I hadn't seen her for a while, I agreed and booked a table for us. We were supposed to be meeting today but I received a text from her at 11.30pm last night, saying that her car MOT had expired but she could still come as her new partner could give her a lift. She then said it was out of the way for him and from the tone it seemed as if she wanted to cancel. I asked if it would be more convenient to postpone it until she had her own transport and she said yes.
So today I see from social media that she has gone for a day out with her new DP, somewhere they would have had to drive to. I can't help feeling that she hasn't been completely honest and just wanted to spend a nice sunny day out with him rather than meeting me. Feeling a bit put out about it and don't really want to rearrange the lunch. She sees this man daily, going from her social media updates and I don't really believe the MOT story as she uses her car for work and would have realised. I put off seeing another friend because she said she wanted to meet up so I'm not very happy.
What would you think about this?
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Friend cancelled lunch at the last minute...
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conversationdiva · 08/05/2016 16:08
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