This is a wierd one.
Been with DP for 3 years and am happy, no children.
Never been unfaithful to her and no plans to be.
A close friend introduced me to her friend a few weeks ago and it turns out she has taken a large shine to me. She has sent a few flirty messages whilst drunk. I laughed it off and nothing else was said.
I am enjoying the facts someone fancies me though.
I have been turning down invitations to friends house because she will be there and I feel like I am being unfaithful just by being in the company of someone who I know likes me!
Should I continue to avoid? Given the above, am I "cheating" just by being in her company? I dont have feelings for her, I just think she is "ok" looking and enjoy her company.
Or am I subconsciously worried something will happen if drunk and around her?
I am a gay female btw. Only mentioning it because when I post a lot of people refer to me as a man which is annoying :)
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Taking yourself out of a situation, yes or no?
18 replies
NotGonnaAnswerThePhone · 06/05/2016 17:24
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.