My H isn't talking to me, haven't seen him properly since we disagreed a couple of days ago (come home to sleep only) and now I really don't know what to do.
I have a DS who is is a teenager, cheeky at times, a struggle to get out of his bed in the mornings, but what I call normal! We all did it.
My H called him rude in front of some family members describing the start to our day as a disaster because DS couldn't get his act together and decide what he wanted to do etc etc. He'd done nothing wrong and I bit back at H, I know I shouldn't, two wrongs never make a right but my blood was boiling, it feels like he is always having a go at him. I stupidly bought H DD's into the argument, I've never complained up until that point, we do everything to accommodate all their social activities during weekends they visit to the point that family plans are put on hold to accommodate all the social things they want to do. I don't complain, I don't say anything, just get on with it. H was having a go at my DS for all the same things I experience every other weekend and don't say anything.
My H stormed off to the car and then screamed at me in the car saying that I'm never to be rude again about his DDs. The bit I don't get is why does he think it's acceptable to be rude about my DS to family and I'm not allowed to say anything. My feelings are all over the place, angry, hurt, sad, cross at H. He won't talk, I've tried to talk to him, to get him to come home to discuss, we won't, all he has said is that I need to get it sorted, if he won't talk then what can I do.?
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JustMeThinking14 · 02/05/2016 14:36
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