I've come to the end of my tether with my DP.
He is an otherwise nice bloke, does his fair share of childcare, housework ect. Never been unfaithful ect ect.
The main problem is his inability to keep a job and the lies that go with this. We have been together for 2 yrs and have a baby. He has always been flaky with jobs but has had some periods of keeping a job so I always thought it would get better and like I say he is otherwise a good man.
I am on maternity leave at the moment but i am usually the main earner. So far he has been 'fired' from 4 jobs. I put it in inverted comma's as basically I will never know the truth. I suspect he tells me the version which shows him in the best light.
Yesterday he got 'fired' from his latest job. He already has two interviews lined up for today so i suspect he will be working again soon. The issue is I can't believe a word he says but can never really prove it. I have proved little lies he has told me before but i forget examples. But when we were arguing earier I couldn't really say what lies he has told me but I just know he has.
I have said I no longer want to be in a relationship with him anymore as I am driving myself mad questioning everything but I know I will find it hard to stick to this when I have no actual 'proof'. What if he is telling the truth?!? How do you deal with liars like this?
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How to deal with a liar
Bettydownthehall · 28/04/2016 11:36
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