I didn't know whether to put this in relationship forum or health but here goes. I'm sorry it's long I just don't want to drip feed.
So my OH snores, SO loud and I can't sleep. We don't live together (for reasons I won't go into as this might out me!) but have been together for 5 years now.
We are finally getting to the point where next year we are thinking of buying a house together but the problem is we can't sleep together and it's making me so sad.
I am knackered the next day after he stays over and at the moment we are only staying the night at each others houses on a Saturday evening when I don't have to be up so early the next day.
As a twist, I also snore like a train make a few noises in the night and this sometimes wakes him up too - he seems to be able to put up with this and roll of back to sleep but I'm led there for ages and ages and it seems the second I fall asleep I'm getting woken up again!
Health wise - I have been seen by ENT department at the hospital, I have had an overnight sleep study, I am definitely not overweight I exercise 5 times a week (running and weight training), run a business, work full time, help OH with his business - I don't stop basically so getting more exercise isn't really the case in my situation.
The ENT and sleep study couldn't find anything wrong and just said it was "one of those strange things" so from my point of view there's no cure...
My OH also runs around like a blue arse fly on a daily basis, works 7 days a week 13/14/15 hours a day with his own business so is fairly fit and healthy but could possibly stand to lose a few pounds but definitely is not overweight.
Neither of us smoke, drink, eat a lot of curries (I've heard that makes snoring worse which is why I've mentioned it!)
I wear earplugs, I've tried various ones on the market - probably spent around £100 trying different ones and none have worked, I am still woken up when wearing them. I am very petite and have small ear canals so when I do wear them my ears get very sore to the point where they are really hurting me right now and I wore them Saturday night last. I have tried earplugs specifically made for smaller ear canals and whilst they don't hurt they don't block anywhere near as much as normal earplugs so mayaswell not be wearing them at all.
Myself and my OH have tried the nasal strips, throat sprays, nose sprays, mouth guards and none have made any difference at all. Doesn't matter if he sleeps on his side/back/front, more pillows, less pillows, nothing is working.
I really don't want to be one of those couples that sleep in separate bedrooms, I miss him enough during the week as it is I hate the thought that we can never be in the same bed :-(
I'm hoping someone will come here and give me a magical cure that I've not tried yet!!
Any suggestions will be greatly received and thank you for reading if you've got this far!!
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Snoring is ruining my relationship!
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NewRags · 27/04/2016 10:19
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