I have so many problems I don't know where to start.
We've been ignoring each other since yesterday because he shouted at me for not helping him fix his computer - and that's because I said I would but was still busy with the dc's and cooking/washing up etc and I was tired.
Dh and I never have sex. The last few times (the last being over six months ago) he couldn't climax and it made me feel crap.
I dont fancy him anymore. We are usually affectionate but he never initiates sex and nor do I. Due to my early starts I'm asleep by 9 and he's frustrated as I don't drink alcohol so dont do pubs and I'm not that sociable in ways of having people over or going out in the evening.
The things I find fun, he doesn't. So he usually goes and stays with his sister and they go and get drunk or do whatever they find fun. She's very wealthy and single so I think it offers an escape for him away from responsibility and bills and the normal family routine.
6 months ago I said I wasn't happy and asked if he'd be happier if we split up. He said he will never leave the children and the house so if I'm unhappy then I have to leave.
So I've felt trapped.
We recently went away for a 'dirty weekend' but it wasn't, I was far too tired and he went out alone drinking and eating out! I felt bad but he was happy to and I had a rest in the hotel but.. How dull.
He's now making me feel after this latest confrontation that I'm in debt to him as he took me away for the weekend so I owe him one.
I'm starting to think he's the most selfish arse I've ever met.
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Realitea · 26/04/2016 12:36
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