As the title says really.
I've posted previously about my Dad and the relationship we have (or rather lack of).
We have spoken and made some progress but I have told him that we can only move forward if my SM is not involved as she has never let us spend any time alone since they got together over 20 years ago and has been emotionally abusive towards me since I was 6 years old. I don't want her around my kids either in case she does the same to them.
My DF has said that he doesn't think this will work as she is his wife and a big part of his life.
I don't think I am asking for a lot, going out for lunch once a month with his daughter and grandkids (who he has never met) without his wife doesn't seem like a big ask to me or am I wrong?
This is my final attempt to salvage our relationship and it just feels like he is dragging his heals once again for the sake of an easy life where his wife is concerned.
I don't know why I'm posting here really, I'm hurt and upset and have no one impartial in RL to talk to about it.
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DF doesn't want a relationship with me and DCs if his wife can't be involved
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Ellarose85 · 25/04/2016 06:17
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