I found out my DH was having an affair a few months ago. We've been living separately since then.
The affair happened at a time of extreme stress for us a couple - I don't want to go into details here - and we both dealt with things in different ways. I'm not excusing what he did, but I really can understand what led him to do it.
So fast forward to where we are now. We are both miserable and missing each other. We have had time to reflect on the the crap that happened in the last last few years and are beginning to talk again. We have known each other all our lives. We have been married for years and years and I truly can't bear the thought of the rest of my life without him. We have talked about divorce but I don't want that and I know he doesn't either. I have tried OLD and met a nice man who I've been seeing for a few weeks but he's just not my DH. No-one will be.
So what I'm asking of the lovely mumsnet ladies is not to tell me to LTB or to tell me I'm being weak for forgiving him. I know he's been a bastard, just as I was a bitch.
What I'm interested in hearing is success stories - has anyone made it work?
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Getting back together after an affair - any success stories?
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SunshineFreckles · 13/04/2016 08:45
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