I really think I need some help, I broke up with my ex back in November and I just can't seem to move on. It's so embarrassing because I know I should have moved on by now so don't feel able to talk to anyone about it in RL. I've got past the gut wrenching, crying everyday heartbreak and I'm currently casually dating someone but I can't help but think of him everyday. I still miss him and feel like I've lost my soul mate.
I broke up with him because we were long distance (another country 10 hours flight away) and I could tell he was bullshitting me delaying plans to move here. He was also taking longer to reply to messages, ringing me less and we stopped skyping altogether. I know I ended things so don't have a right to know how he's doing but I guess Part of the reason I ended it was I was hoping he would realise what he'd lost and try harder to rebuild our relationship. We were together 1.5 years and I can honestly say I've never met anyone who I have clicked with so well. He was my best friend and I really miss his support. I was so proud of him and we shared so many good times together.
I tried to go NC but broke in February and called him crying saying I loved him. He told me he loved me too but had met someone else and wanted to make it work with them.
I asked if he loved her and he said no and that he had told her all about me (weird!!) and was asking if I had met someone (I hadn't at the time). He said he wanted to be friends and that he would text me when he had a new phone at the end of the month so he could download Skype and whatsapp but I never heard from him again. He's come off Facebook too. I'm just so sad that I don't even mean enough to him to be friends.
I'm just scared that he was my soul mate and I let him go. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him including focusing on myself, spending more time with friends and family and throwing myself into work and house projects but I still miss him everyday and it hurts knowing he's happy with another woman.
How can I move on from this?? Do you think he ever loved me? How can he just blank me like this if he did?
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lambadama · 06/04/2016 12:53
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