Hi. I met a guy two weeks ago, he lives around 90 minutes away from me and the day after we met he asked if we would like to meet up in a nearby city. For the past two weeks we have spoke every day via text. He sometimes takes a while to reply and the reason we haven't met yet is because he works long hours and also he is a full time dad to a little boy. He is lovely though and we have really connected, but theres part of me that is so paranoid he is just stringing me along and we won't meet up.
I came out of a bad relationship 6 months ago where i was told a lot of lies and at the time i was devastated. I thought i'd never meet anybody again.
I really like this new guy and I don't want to be all paranoid and hesitant because of my ex. I don't want to bug him/come across as desperate but I think I've forgotten how all this works! Do I make sure i text him every day even if he doesn't text me first? Do I keep asking if he is working at the weekend and when can we meet?
Sorry, this all sounds like a teenager but I am genuinely so lost and hopeless and like i say, we have really clicked and i'd love to see him again.
Thank you for any advice and apologies for the rambling.
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harriet2802 · 15/03/2016 09:36
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