Ok so been separated from exh due to lots of dv and other abuse. He was also seeing someone else before he left. They have had one child who is one and he has just texted they are due another
I just feel a bit sick as nothing is decided in terms of the settlement for our two dcs and now there will be even less in the pot as it were for them
It also just hurts as i had always wanted more kids and he kept saying he didn't and now he has. And even if i was to meet some i wd be too old by then for another
Just that he is happily moving on not caring that technically we still married. And i am struggling as a single parent with no job no partner no family and also trying to build myself up after the abuse plus trying to fight for a fair settlement as he is a very high earner
I don't know i just feel this knock is too much
How can i deal with this
I worry about kids too as they only just used to the 1st baby let alone another and he isn't paying enough as it is
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ex is having yet another child with the ow and still divorce not finalised. am struggling please help
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yummytummy · 23/02/2016 14:14
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