That's it really, husband of 2 1/2 years is smoking and buying cannabis. We have two dd's, 5 and just 4 months. If the smoking weed wasn't bad enough, I confronted him and he outright lied to my face. I told him before I asked outright that if I found out he lied he was to walk out the door. He lied anyway so I showed him a screenshot of a Facebook message I took from his account (I know I shouldn't be looking but I needed proof and I was right). He got ready to walk out the door, I got upset told him I'd throw his stuff out in bin bags and he started shouting and pushing through the door. He reached out for me and I told him never to lay a hand on me so he grabbed my shoulder. Not forcefully but I panicked and called the police who wouldn't believe I was fine and sent someone anyway.
He's been texting, It's now my fault apparently for spying on him, it was an overreaction calling the police (I'm not having him shouting and swearing at me in front of the kids).
I told him its drugs or us but the trust has gone and I don't know if I can ever believe him again. He gets it from a friend (his only close friend who I believe he is now staying with as he has nowhere else) and as long as that friend is in his life I'll never believe he's not smoking.
God that was long, thanks if you've stuck with me through that!
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Iloveonionchutney · 13/02/2016 23:39
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