I'm struggling to make sense of the relationship that I am in.
We went to Relate a few times - I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore because of how much he upset me and that I wanted him to realise that I had genuine reasons for not wanting to be with him, rather than him believing that I was crazy and that any problems were just in my head.
He did improve a bit after that - he doesn't shout and swear so much and has started to be a little more helpful.
But, I just don't feel like I have any respect or love left for him.
We have a 6 year old son who thinks his father is great.
My partner also has problems with alcohol and I've just found he has been taking prescription drugs that he bought on line. He is obviously stressed and I really don't think that he is suited to having a family. I've tried talking to his gp, but he said that he cannot help him unless he asks for help himself.
I feel that I hardly know him. He never talks to me about how he feels. He keeps me separate from his family - I've met his mother once in 11 years.
He absolutely refuses to talk to me about separating and says that I would be destroying our son's life and that I am just being selfish.
I don't think that I can stay with him anymore, but I don't think I have the strength to go it alone and be a happy mother to my son.
I feel like everything is a mess and I don't know what to do.
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shrubbery · 09/02/2016 12:52
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