Haven't been myself for a long time. Started counselling very recently. One of my closest friends has been quite distant lately, since before Xmas when they moved house. She works part-time and often chops and changes her days so if I need to call her I usually do in evening. The other day I messaged to see if I could drop some new house things off to her in the evening and of course she said fine. She called that afternoon, I can't remember about what and I was surprised as it was one of her work days. When I asked her about that she just said she wasn't feeling well so had swapped her days. That evening, I popped into hers with another friend and as they were talking, it turned out she had gone into town shopping with a different friend, someone I know of but don't know as it is someone she knows from another part of her life. Anyway, both friends carried on talking, I felt invisible, and I didn't feel strong enough to call out. It has been on my mind since and we are getting together this weekend. If there is one thing that is really important to her is honesty and integrity and it is so out of character. I am already hypersensitive at the moment and had asked her a couple of weeks ago if I had done something since she was being so distant. She is one of my oldest friends, and we have had so many brilliant times through good and bad. I just don't know why she would have so obviously lied to me.
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Would you call out a friend that lied to you ?
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Whywaitfortomorrow · 04/02/2016 15:36
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