I have a young relative who is always doing fun runs etc and each time asks for charity donations. on the whole I don't mind donating to these as they are for a well known charity I would support anyway.
Yesterday she announced she is raising funds to go to India to help build schools with an international charity. The total cost is 2500 pounds. I am close to her mum, she is a wonderful person though somewhat over indulgent towards her daughter. This is the second time this young woman has signed up for this type of trip. The first time she 'got bored' of fund raising and approx 1k of money was lost (similar set up to camp international). Most of the money came as a direct donation from family and friends and apart from one car boot which she did, she didn't actually do much fundraising.
She has a habit of bailing out if stuff gets too inconvenient and usually her mum picks up the slack, which will be difficult this time as she has recently lost her job.
I don't want to donate again this time, Any donation would have to be a reasonable amount and to be honest I don't think this young woman will get the total she will need and once again money will be swallowed up towards admin costs and the trip wont happen
(She has form for jumping from one 'exciting idea' to another and mostly fails to follow through.)
I can't plead poverty as she would know I was lying, I just dont want to contribute to another of her pie in the sky projects, but I obviously cant say I have no faith in her without upsetting her mum who I love to bits
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meddie · 31/01/2016 11:20
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