To cut a long story short, DH and I fell out with his brother 4 years ago and both his sister and parents seemed to take their side. His parents still spoke to us and saw us occasionally but not as much as they saw his brother and sister. Admittedly we live 40 mins away and they live 15 mins from each other. His sister stopped all contact and bday cards except to DH.
This autumn I put out an olive branch and it seemed to be taken. His brother and his family came to Sunday roast and we had a relaxed time. We've not seen them since but they lead busy lives. I stupidly thought if we made up with the brother, his sister and parents would be happy and we could all join in family occasions
We asked to see his parents either yesterday or 30th as not seen or spoken to them since Xmas Eve. His dad just said they were busy 27th and so we're going out to lunch with his parents 30th.
However (and I should just stop using FB) last night his dad posted a pictures of all of them playing a game at the parents house. It just hurts that we weren't invited round. I just can't understand how DHs parents can blatantly leave DH out. He says he's not bothered and as long as he's got me and my two children (he's stepdad) he's happy. We are very happy but I find the whole situation with his family so hard.
The sad thing is his dad has only just signed up for FB and like his wife, it's my DHs sister who posts on his behalf.
Should we just carry on with the lunch and accept we're outsiders? With such a good relationship with my brother and parents I find this hard.
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Mistressmiggins · 28/12/2015 08:58
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