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Little Christmas fling - how to not get attached?

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pompster · 24/12/2015 15:04

Was reunited with a work colleague last night during Christmas drinks, and there was a definite spark and he admitted to fancying me when we worked together.
We shared quite a few cheeky snogs and went off to another bar alone. I so could have taken him home Shock but I had to be good as my DS was due back to me this morning!
We both want things to go further. HOWEVER he works abroad for most of the year and is going back there in 2 weeks. So we can't really do the relationship thing.
I really want to have some fun but I'm worried about getting emotionally attached as sex tends to create love where I'm involved!
Do I go for it and enjoy, live for the moment? or steer well away? I've been single for a few months now and would love a little bit of excitement Wink

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TheSnowFairy · 24/12/2015 15:14

If he is single, go for it and enjoy the next couple of weeks.

Not much point in worrying about what happens after that!

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pompster · 24/12/2015 15:17

He is definitely single! Eeeek!!

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meoryou · 24/12/2015 15:33

go for it - enjoy yourself and don't look too far in the future.
Best of luck !!

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flatbellyfella · 24/12/2015 16:01

Be safe & enjoy..... No babies !!!

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PrizeyPrize · 24/12/2015 19:02

go for it OP! and have lots of fun! Just play it cool, no expectations.

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