Works Xmas party Fri and I overheard a colleague slagging off a guy who works in another department and who had(perfectly politely) it seems asked her on a date. Fair enough she didn't want to and declined. But she didn't need to indiscreeetly tell her pissed and none too discreet colleague while being imo quite unkind about him how did he think he had a chance etc. And certainly not cackling over him asking her afterwards not to tell anyone as he was so embarassed. I know him only very slightly but he seems very reserved and shy and would be mortified if he knew about this. He wasn't at the do, maybe he was too embarassed to come because of all of it.I just think the least anyone deserves male or female is some basic respect when they haven't done anything wrong themselves. We are talking about people in their 40s btw.
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bridie69 · 20/12/2015 06:20
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