I filed for divorce in September. We have 2 young dcs and still live together mainly because financially neither of us are in a position to do anything about it. We've just started the mediation process.
We agreed to spend Christmas Day together, at home for the dcs sake. I'm dreading it. I hate him so much. He's selfish, inconsiderate and lazy. He plays no part in family life whatsoever other than financially.
I'm so angry with him this weekend. I took the dcs out all day yesterday, he asked when we were coming home and I said late afternoon, he said he was going out last night to which I replied fine. Got home to a note that dc1 found saying he'd gone out and wasn't going to be back until this afternoon. No explanation. I don't care what he's up to but the dcs do. Cue lots of mummy, where's daddy? Etc etc. This is typical of him. Does completely his own thing and fuck what anyone else feels.
I hate living with him and just want him out. He treats the place like a hotel anyway.
So fed up. I don't care about him one bit but I hate the way he's constantly letting the dcs down and I'm left to pick up the pieces. It happens time and time again. They love their daddy obviously but I feel I'm constantly covering for him. They are only young after all. Had enough. Not sure what I'm asking really but needed to vent.
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Hate my STBEX, how can I get through Christmas?
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Winniethewylde · 13/12/2015 10:28
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