My husband is in a really bad place at the moment and has just had a breakdown in front of the children. Always seems to happen in December and gets worse every year - he works himself into the ground to make extra money for christmas although I don't go stupid and we can manage without the extra but money is is he one of the things he obsesses about along with mess and noise. Our son has aspergers and I am slowly realising that this is probably what he has. Anyway we do nothing together now we work in shifts- me and the kids in the house and he goes out then we go out and he comes home. He cant stand the kids being kids and the mess that they make. The house is his pride and joy and he hates how the kids presence turns it into a bomb site. He makes it immaculate every evening and he then gets up early for his hour of solace in his perfect house before they get up. I have told him now I want out which he says is great because he can have his prefect house back. I don't have anywhere to go so is going to have be a friends house or a hotel for a couple of nights- but he will not leave the house as he loves it to much. So if I intentionally make myself and the kids homeless where do I stand. ??
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where do i stand if me and kids leave DH as he won't budge
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peppajay · 05/12/2015 18:36
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