I miscarried at 11 weeks at the end of August. I've accepted it as much as is.possible and although it has been heartbreaking and I still cry about it occasionally, I need to move on.
We got married three weeks ago and I thought this would be the new beginning and was looking forward to the future.
DH however, has other thoughts. He will hardly come near me sexually and mentions every so often that he doesn't want to have a baby until we've sorted our finances/the house/his van/my car.... Anything really.
I mentioned going on the pill yesterday. He said no he knows I'm not keen on taking anything hormonal. I mentioned abstaining during fertile periods of my cycle. He said no. I mentioned taking it a little more seriously and actually ttc and he said no.
I'm so confused. He's against contraceptives but against me getting pregnant. But then when I mention delaying ttc he also objects.
I don't know where to turn or what to think. He's not a bad bloke this is my disclaimer, he's kind, sensitive, caring, etc. Emotional issues that he's going through he keeps to himself though. I'm just so confused and can't work out where his head is at.
Does anyone have any insight?
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