Basically she really struggles for money. She's widowed in her late 60s and works part time despite poor health.
I know that it's her problem...my Dad left her quite well off but it's all gone and I can't resent her or say "Oh well, you've made your bed" because she's my Mum.
I've recently emigrated and we're still establishing ourselves...so I'm not in a position to help her...though even a regular 20 quid a week would make a difference to her!
She does not complain to me....but I know she's not got any money at all some days. She has some benefits but also debts.
I know it's not my fault or responsibility but I so want to be able to help her a bit.
She supports my feckless brother who is on the dole and always runs out of cash....so that's probably why she can't make ends meet.
What shall I do?
I could probably stick 40 quid a week into her account and say nothing...but should I?
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Can anyone advise me re guilt and my Mother?
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TheHouseOnTheLane · 23/11/2015 10:29
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