Hi. My and my partner have been together 5 years. Have a 1 year old together.
He's very lazy. Doesn't clean up much after himself, sleeps until noon, doesn't do much with our daughter, generally expects me to do everything.
I'm SAHM currently. Ideally would have liked to have returned to work but partner took a job which meant finding childcare would be difficult.
He's generally annoying. Tries to annoy and upset people.
He has taken out credit on a camera, phone, lense & tablet. All of which is still being paid off. He took out a £2000 loan behind my back in August. Had £1000 spent in a secret overdraft. I was told the loan was to get us out of debt.
We spoke and I assumed we'd got to a point where financially we had no secrets. But this morning I discovered a credit card. Apparently we're having bad money problems. And when I confronted him he told me "he literally gives zero fucks about your opinion".
If there were serious money issues I'd have cut back the food shopping bills, been more cautious and tried harder in looking for a job.
I get the feeling that my job to him is to sit down, shut up, do as I'm told and not complain.
Straight after this argument he came to asking for sexual favours.
He's also horribly sexist and told me the other week "he could speak to me how he likes because he's the one with the penis".
I'm so resigned to this and I have nobody to go to.
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KellyLd · 02/11/2015 16:31
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