Background: I'm one of those people who never gets really irritated with people and if i do i try to get over it quickly, as i tend to think everyone is doing their best in life, even if it's not what i would do. One of my friends is the opposite, she's a lovely person most of the time but gets annoyed quickly and tends to hold a grudge.
A few weeks ago I upset friend by being a bit interfering in her life, she got turned down for a promotion at work and I kept suggesting she come up with a new life plan. I've learnt from this, I should have just let her deal with it in her own way and have apologised but at the moment she is still quite annoyed with me and I'm trying to give her space. She's also going to have quite a few major things coming up which i want to wish her well for, for example, her DP had some minor hospital treatment today so i sent her a short text saying good luck and got a one word reply. And in a couple of weeks she has an important exam for a work qualification she is doing.
My question is, if someone has upset you, does it make things worse if they keep contacting you, even if it just to send good wishes?
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Trying to be nice when someone is angry with you
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arlee · 30/10/2015 17:14
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