So I've been seeing someone for a few months now we live a good few hours away from each other, it all started well, phone calls every night, texts, visits every few weeks etc, he works a lot and I have a child so it makes it difficult to see each other.
For the last few weeks little things have been creeping in, he won't call one night and say he fell asleep, I'll send a message to whatsapp and it won't even deliver (I don't even know what that means but someone suggested posibly that he'd deleted whatsapp?) when we talk he's very reassuring, tells me he really likes me, he isn't interested in anyone else, he's not the sort of person to mess around etc, which is reassuring to an extent but then, of course you would say that right? No ones going to tell the truth if they're planning on being a dirt bag are they!!
I had a very bad relationship before where my partner was just sleeping with everyone behind my back and for months I made excuses for his behaviour, he was stressed from work, I'd done something wrong, the usual until I final admitted to myself he was a total cheating dirt bag! So now I'm faced with these little niggling doubts and I honestly don't know if I'm being paranoid, If I'm right but I'm making excuses like I did in the past or what!! ????
I feel I can't talk to him about it because it's a bit offensive really if he's a decent person, and if he's not I'll be warming him I'm suspicious and he'll just act less suspicious/hide it better!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks :)
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Torchlight86 · 15/08/2015 23:37
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