Ive been friends with a really nice guy let's call him tom now for over a year. Some of you will have read the crap I went through with my ex and part of it was his jealousy over this Tom being my friend. He thought tom fancied me and I had to keep reassuring him that he didn't and that i didn't fancy him either.
Since we split I can't seem to get tom out of my head. I know it's linked to the crap my ex put me through and his constant going on that Tom fancied me and I was going to cheat on him. Before I never looked at Tom in this way thinking instead that he just a really sweet guy that was nice and flirty with everyone. Everyone of my friends thinks he's great. But now I can't stop thinking of him like this. I really really really fancy him, im engineering ways to see him and hoping he turns up when we all go out. Im thinking of trips I can suggest for us all to go on just to spend time with him. Basically it's starting to influence my behaviour and distract me from what I actually wNt to focus on.
How do I stop a crush? Ive never had one before not even a teenage pop star style crush. I don't want to date, im the happiest I've been in a long time just being single. But this guy keeps popping into my thoughts and plans. Help before I do something stupid!
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Allbymyselfagain · 10/08/2015 22:48
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