I need some advice... 7 months ago I found out my husband of 3 years had been having an affair for the past 12 months with a work colleague. Not only a colleague but known to my family. At the time I was 1 month pregnant with our second child, it was very traumatic and caused a lot of upset between both our families! I filed for divorce straight away and my husband began to realise the seriousness of his actions. However a month later I then found out from a family member that the OW had had an abortion which was my husbands child. I confronted them both and found out this was true which crushed me even more. It has been 7 months or so now and things have cooled down between myself and my ex and we are getting on well for the sake of our son and imminent arrival however I am starting to have doubts about the divorce. He doesn't see or hear from the ow anymore and deeply regrets the affair, he is really trying to put things right but I'm finding it hard to let him? My family really hate him and things will never be the same again between them and my mum thinks I'm being a fool for even letting him in my life, but I can't help thinking what if I allow him to put things right, start again and how much better it would be for our children in the long run? Should I listen to my family and move on? Or should I take a chance on putting my family back together knowing my own family would never respect my decision?
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08/08/2015 22:46
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