First time on here so here goes. My husband left the family home yesterday after months of deciding if our relationship was over. What I thought would be relief is more like grief. I haven't been happy for a long time trying to explain this on many occasions to my husband who either dismissed it or told me it was "all in my head" Unfortunately when he realised I was serious the time had passed for me and I knew I would probably never get the feelings back. He is now devastated as he says he has lost everything. His home, kids and everything we have worked towards over the years. I feel terrible and the guilt is eating away at me. Part of me wants to try again but deep down I know the same problems will be there after the initial make up honeymoon period. Am I just feeling this because its actually happening and very raw or should I try again even if I have come this far. We do have two children who seem fine about the situation.
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