I have had some good news recently and when I told one person it spread like wildfire on facebook .I was okay with this as it was something people were happy for me about.
I saw some of my facebook friends face to face in a group I go to and again they were happy for me and we shared the joy. All was good.
However a friend in the group who is not on facebook has taken it badly that I didnt tell her myself and that she had to hear from other people. I went to talk to her about it and she blanked me and said she was upset with me. I didnt think we had such a deep friendship as usually we chat but dont see each other outside the group.
If we need to communicate we text each other but usually its quite direct stuff about lifts etc. She said I ought to have texted her as well as putting it on facebook for everyone else. I can sort of see her point - but only if she was a dear friend who was there for everything else. She isnt.
I dont want to have bad feelings within the group and she is a forceful character,very straight talking and direct ,so would make her feeling very well known if I dont deal with this now.
She wont talk to me .So how do I apologise? Do I apologise? Or let her calm down on her own?
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KillmeNow · 07/07/2015 19:46
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