Hi
I was doing the DC1 bath and juggling breastfeeding the DC2. I was shocked that DP hasn't taken it upon himself to get DC1 out of bath and dressed for bed. It meant he was waiting for me to do it so I voiced my opinion that I felt I was doing it all. He said he didn't understand and I got cross and was telling him surely to understand. I sometimes want him to just think of me and get stuck in putting the kids to bed. He said "stop waving your fat arms at me" u said don't ever say. That. He quickly said say what?. Then after I got them to bed he kept saying he didn't understand why I was so cross. He says I must be making it up in my head!
Ts made me feel really crap as im trying to lose weight and he changed the course of the discussion away from him to my arms!
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Zzzsnatcher · 04/07/2015 19:42
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