I ask this as this weekend i was hoping to see my very ill df on Fathers day then had to work 10/11 as someone accidentley let staff take hols,I covered a guy in the week and asked if i could go early fathers day.Another woman said it was emotional blackmail if i went first eventhough i did 23hrs extra and it was his last fathers day.
The other boss who quit text me to say they pile on the work on me as they know i wont say no as i love working hard.He said they abuse their staff as he knows what my homelife is like ,This got me thinking are people drawn towards abusive people as they expect to be treated this way i actually love working and although ive felt some bullying ive always taken a breath and carried on.I do still sleep on the floor at home and dh has been kinder though this eve he had a bad outburst.
Is my self esteem too low? I did speak out at a meeting 2weeks ago and since then they havent been too bad with me are all relationships based on treating people badly until they speak out or am i unlucky ?
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Is it possible low self esteem and abusive behaviour can be "expected" in life ?
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whatisforteamum · 23/06/2015 19:34
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