STBXH (oh it feels so good to type that!) and I separated 3 months ago, I asked him to leave. He left for a week, then announced he'd been away from the boys too long (despite coming in every day to put them to bed) so was moving back in, and proposed to live independently in the box room.
I said this would never work so I took the boys and left. We had to stay with my dad and stepmum for a few weeks whilst I found somewhere for us to live.
We're now attending mediation (to sort out access and finances not for reconciliation) but I'm so fucking angry with him for forcing the boys to leave their home, it's clouding everything. I struggle to be civil to him. The boys are only 5 and 2 so we're going to be seeing each other for a long time and I don't want to be this angry forever.
I need to know why he thought making us all move was ok, and I don't know whether to bring it up in mediation or text/e-mail him and ask him direct.
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MyGastIsFlabbered · 21/06/2015 19:33
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