I've been dating someone for five months now. We have a great time together chilling etc. We are both single parents so do a few things together on a Sunday. Like day trips etc with the children. Otherwise actual dates are about once a month, sadly. he is not a stranger as he's a male friend I've known for about 15 years.
He admitted in January he fancied me and I fancied him, so we decided to give it a go.
Thing is, it's as though we've continued the friendship and had the odd bit of sex thrown in. To be honest, I could leave the sex as whilst it's good, it feels like I'm doing it out of 'need' rather than a desire to have it. It's that likeI've skipped a honeymoon period and become old overnight and settled into a bit of a mundane relationship.
Should I be over the moon and excited about this relationship? Because I don't really feel it. I enjoy the time we spend doing day trips, but that's it.
I've thought we'd ended things a few weeks ago, but I got the wrong end of the stick. For that moment I felt relived.
I'm so scared to tell him as he's been through a lot prior to me, but it's not fair on him.
I then think that actually I'm being fussy and that good relationships are built on friendships.
Please slap me round the face!!
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I think I'm burying my head in the sand
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MsPepsi · 16/06/2015 18:13
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