Need some hand holding pls

[Isthisreal3]

Hi so I've posted on here a couple of times before...sorry don't know how to link?!

Situation is still unresolved, DH can be emotionally abusive & angry towards myself & DC. I manage all situations we are in to try & keep the peace, regularly (weekly) there is an incident which is inevitably my fault. We are currently living with my parents which is a huge help, DH visits daily.

I thought I'd had enough, more so for the sake of DC. I saw a fabulous solicitor last week who's recommendation was to send/ email him with divorce plan. He will be absolutely devastated, he is already so low with work situation. I don't know if I can do it .... And if I can, is a letter from solicitor the best way? I will email him warning and personal explanation before.

I'm so confused as to the right way forward I don't know if I'm thinking straight.

[stoatystoat]

Keep your head lovely. It is a case of cold feet. You know what you have to do.

Make a shit list of all the incidents and consult it when you feel low. You are worrying about his feelings, but it doesn't sound like he grants you the same consideration. If you are not posting on the emotionally abusive relationships thread, you will get support on there too.