hi,dont often post threads but need a place i can vent
me and ex split up over 2yrs ago,he was caught again having an affair
we had been together 6 yrs and he was physically and mentally abusive (have done a DV programme ,councelling etc) i would never let him move in but he was at mine alot so sought of lived together (no dc's together)
anyway he stayed with OW she moved counties to be with him etc,he was very cruel and used to on purpose turn up with her to social places as he knew i would be there,in all the time we split we have had NO contact which i found really hard at first and it was so so upset for along time.He does turn up at my next door neighbours ever so often (been round twice Thursday and Friday (i ignore him)
last year i was diagnosed with Bipolar,it felt like i was having a breakdown and it has taken me time to accept we are no good for each other,i have been doing really well and meds all working really well
a close friend died recently and two days ago was the funeral so a little emotional at the moment
today i bumped into somebody and they told me the ex is planning on getting married,i feel so upset and down,i feel like ive gone back a year + as to my recovery
he was a cheat a liar,violent and unreliable,
i hate how i feel and just want to go to bed and brood
it seems to me he's had a great time the last few years,hasnt sufferred,hasnt been upset,to me his affair has paid dividends,i hate myself for how i feel i thought i had gone past all this
anybody else experienced similar
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ilovechristmas1 · 13/06/2015 19:58
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