Hi
I started writing a thread last night and have gone to post and its vanished.
I am currently mid divorce, my ex h picked up our dc last night as per our arrangement. prior to her pick up we had had an argument re finances, he put the phone down on me.
when i got home in the evening dc was in bed then as he was going to leave the argument restarted - i told him i had nothing more to say and asked him to leave. I went to open the front door and he pushed my hand/ arm out of the way. I then went to open it again and he held the front door shut so i couldn't open it.
I was very upset and asked him again to leave, he then told me he had something important to tell me (front door was open by this time) but would only say if i shut the front door. i said i had nothing to say and then he told me it was about our dc. i was very worried so shut the door, he told me to come into the living room which i did, he sat down and told me to as well but i wouldn't, i said i wasn't going to sit down and have a discussion with him he could say what he wanted to say about dc and then leave. then because i wouldn't sit down he said fine i'm not telling you. I told him that was out of order he couldn't come back in and tell me he had something to say and then not say it. He then just asked me a question about DC having a eye test, which i have fully told him already and when i did he couldn't have been less interested. this was also a few days ago.
He then eventually went. After he went I was very upset, just with how he had behaved, I was sick in the kitchen. my family do not live far so i called my mum and she came over.
Today i have told my solicitor he has been physically intimidating and that i do not want to continue the arrangement of him bringing DC back here. What else can I do/ should I do? I feel the absolute pits today. Luckily i am working from home.
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lizardqueenie · 10/06/2015 09:40
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