I knew this girl since a year. We were good friends. Once, before she was leaving for another city, I told her that I would have proposed to her if her marriage wasn't fixed. I love her and would like to marry her. She/her parents had decided a groom for her whom she was supposed to marry in one and half year. She told me thanks and after that our communication through text messages doubled.
On Valentine's day, I messaged her "To the most beautiful girl I have ever known, Happy Valentine's Day dear Fairy. May God bless you always". She replied " Wow:) Thank you so much. Thanks for being a part of my life. I am so glad we met at sdfdsfs (the place where we spent a significant part of our 1 year in close interaction)"
I replied "I used to wonder how I ended up at sdfdsfs. Now I know why" She replied "You made my day :)"
After this we have been interacting as close as before this, including texting and talking. But, we hardly talk/message romantic stuff. We admire each others work and most of our communication is centred around that and helping each other professionally.
I am unsure if she loves me and would like to take it forward. I am confused. Once she is back, I will clear things up soon by talking about this. If she accepts, I will be on seventh heaven. If not, very sad. But, I move forward with respect for her decision.
Based on the Valentine Day's messages above, what is your take ? Did she love me or were the replies just how a good friend would reply without hurting me ?
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harrydave · 09/06/2015 19:26
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