Our marriage of 8 years has long broken, he has been engaged in emotional and other types of affairs. He wanted to leave twice but both times stayed - I believe for his own convenience (or perhaps it didn't work out as comfortably for him as he wanted). I believe he will leave permanently sooner or later. We have no future together.
The problem is that if he makes the decision to leave then perhaps he is feeling guilty and is very amicable in regard of financial support and seeing DC.
But I have a feeling that if I tell him to leave he may be not so amicable. I dread that.
Generally he is a potato couch and just sits there with his laptop and TV on, zero interaction. I could go on a date, he probably wouldn't mind. That makes it convenient to co-live with him too, but I don't want to waste another several years until he makes up his mind.
I overlooked his phone password so I know he is in love with someone in his home country but I can't really tell him that or how I know.
I just wonder how to push him gently to make the move sooner rather than later?
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How to make H leave without having to chuck him out
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meadowquark · 27/05/2015 23:38
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