Im 36, married and have 1 child.
Basically my mum and husband to an extent have complete control over me.
My mum still treats me the same way she always has as a teenager and still speaks to me like one and still gives me telling offs or speaks her mind to me about my life/child regardless of how it makes me feel.
My husband can be overpowering, doesn't like me to go out with the girls, likes to know what im doing where I am.
I feel I life my whole live to keep these 2 pleased! Every thing I do, I think about them first and what they might say and im sick of this.
My marriage has been unhappy for a number of years but I stay regardless as I don't want to make anyone else unhappy.
How do I get control of my own life?
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gainingcontrol1 · 21/05/2015 21:40
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