Just need somewhere that I can write and for people to tell me if I am being unreasonable.
ExP moved out last April after 24 yrs together and 2 children. Things have been extremely complicated as we run a business together. To date he has paid no maintenance for the children, so I am posting a letter through his letter box later today to ask him to start paying.
He will not be happy and will probably threaten all sorts of things but I don't see why he shouldn't pay towards his own 2 children. He takes the attitude that as I work for our company and pay myself a wage, then that should be enough. I'm fortunate in that I have worked all my life and can survive financially without him.
I guess I am just not looking forward to the fall out from this but I know it is the right thing to do. I just feel ridiculous for feeling so scared of his reaction to this.
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strong123 · 20/05/2015 11:34
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