I'm having problems in my marriage at the moment, and we are having counselling.
I have been depressed for a while and used to think the problems were because I was depressed, but now I think I'm depressed because of his treatment, and think he may be emotionally abusive.
Anyway, I've been doing a lot of thinking and something is really bothering me, but I need some other people's perspective please.
I used to have a reasonable sex drive, but the depression has lowered it over the years, and I admit to not wanting it much.
He tries it on quite a lot, and if I refuse and just want a cuddle he sulks, and rolls over.
One time he kept trying and trying, and even though I didn't want to (didn't necessarily say no, but likewise he could tell I wasn't interested) he kept trying to talk me into it, and in the end I felt I had to give in and do it anyway.
This was a couple of years ago, but it's always bothered me. I know it sounds silly after all this time, but I can't get it out of my mind.
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Something in the past is bothering me, was it abuse?
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LittleMissIntrovert · 19/05/2015 15:57
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