Very long story short.
I've been trying to 'phase out' someone who was a very close friend for quite a few years. I know many people don't agree with that but I did so because I was to scared to have a confrontation about their behaviour. When they have had big fall outs in the past (has happened a lot) 'friend' has been aggressive and vindictive and I didn't want to be on the recoeving end.
Over the last year I have 'been very busy' and we just have not seen each other not spoken in 3 months.
I am expecting dc do I call/text friend before I announce on social media as they are likely to be very angry that I've not told them in advance but if I do I don't want 'friend' to take that as a signal that I want to be in communication with them.
I know this is a weird situation and sounds like playground stuff but not sure how to handle all this?
Already 16 weeks so need to announce soon.
Thanks
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Littleyellowbirdie · 17/05/2015 10:01
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