Tried to keep the title neutral to avoid trolls. I'm sorry if this is not the right part of the forum.
I'm seeing a counsellor at the moment - had PND and we are now working though issues relating to attachment, past domestic violence, low self esteem.
I think I want to talk to her about something but I don't know if I'm being ridiculous. When I was about 5 my neighbour (also a girl) used to come and play alone in my room with me. I was the 'prince' and she was the 'princess'. We would end up naked under my bedcovers and I would - what I now know, as an adult, to call - perform
oral sex. My memory is fuzzy, but I don't think I instigated it. I have always felt ashamed and dirty about this - maybe partly because I was the 'boy', though I was often cast as a boy in games because I was tall and had very short hair. It stopped when we moved, I think.
I just can't see how any child would know about this act? Could it be totally innocent? It feels significant in the context of my difficult childhood, though I have no memory of expeiencing any abuse.
I am trying to drum up the courage to discuss it with my counsellor and I guess it would help to have the perspective of others on an 'anonymous' forum. Sorry if I've rambled - it's hard to write about this.
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getyourgeekon · 15/05/2015 15:26
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