I've been with boyfriend for a year and a half. When we first met we were both still married. I had been separated from my husband at the time for a year. He told me he had been separated for 9 months. It took him a year to finally tell his wife that he had met me. I was understanding at the time as he said he didn't want to piss his ex off incase she moved away with his son. Ever since we met he said he wanted to divorce her but a year and a half later and he still hasn't done anything, even though he knows how crap the fact he hasn't started divorce proceedings makes me. My divorce is now complete and I'm made to feel like I'm being unreasonable when I mention him getting on with his. Does he really want a divorce? Am I a mug?
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pocketsaviour ·
05/05/2015 19:59
Not sure why you didn't get any responses.
No, it doesn't sound like he wants a divorce. And yes, he's been playing you for a mug.
I wouldn't be surprised to learn that he wasn't as "separated" as he led you to believe when you met 
If you are looking for someone to re-marry - I think you're going to have to throw this one back and reacast your line. Sorry :(
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