Hi everyone,
Not really posted on here much so please be gentle!!
Having substantial problems with my OH at the moment, it's gotten to a point in our relationship where I'm wanting to do badly get out but I'm terrified of doing so.
To begin with, all was lovely, we've got a 15 month old son and I'm also 7 months pregnant. Slowly but steadily things started getting worse, he began going out loads and spending far too much money, and would then expect me to pay all of the household bills, buy the nappies and buy the food. This is also along with me doing all of the bath, bedtimes, night wakings and dinnertimes etc. He works full time and I part, so I understand the majority of the responsibility lies with me, but all I've ever asked for is a little help but I get "I've been working all day whilst you sit on your arse" then begins the arguments... Things have just been getting so bad I don't know what else to do, a few months ago he came home out of his head drunk and tried to take our son away, I then shielded him so oh couldn't take him, and he dragged me away by my throat and arm. I know I should have called the police and many of you are now face palming whilst reading this, but I loved him and didn't want to see him get arrested or dragged away in cuffs. I know how it sounds, trust me, I've read plenty of stories and done the same facepalm! This is all probably sounding garbled but honestly, I have nobody I can really talk to, sometimes it's just nice to be heard...
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xxthedutchessxx · 02/05/2015 14:32
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