Relevant background - my current DH and my ex are friends. I was with ex from when I was 21 to 25 roughly. My DH is/was one of his friends and how I got to know him originally. We didn't get together for years after I split with ex. I'm very happy with DH and we have a 2 year old DD.
Earlier DH was getting ready to go on exs stag weekend. He made a comment about being curious to see if ex had changed and if he was going to behave himself. I asked him what he meant and he said that ex cheated a lot on every girlfriend he had, including me.
I'm not sure how to process this. I'm not upset now but I'm kind of heartbroken for the girl I was. Does that make sense? I loved ex when I was with him and I did suspect things sometimes but he was always the kind of man who was the life and soul of the party and I didn't want to be the paranoid jealous girlfriend.
I'm sure I'll forget about in a a day or two but for now it's kind of nagging at me and I'm remembering things I overlooked or he just said he was being friendly.
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Just found out ex cheated on me constantly - not sure how to feel
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goldfishgoldfish · 01/05/2015 21:41
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