My sister has MIL issues. She has a very difficult SIL on top. SIL is making her life hell. I have minimal contact with MIL.
I don't tolerate misbehaviour and my sister is a saint compared to me. Obviously I believe what I'm doing is right but I fear I'm guiding my elder sister to a difficult path. My sis said she didn't call our mum for help this time. Our mum advises all of us to keep things civil and accept them as they are and make the best out of it. So my sis is calling me to have an honest discussion. We have to be careful with our parents as they feel more bad and their unhappiness at the situation causes more stress.
I'm too full of hatred for my own MIL. Its a hot button issue. How do I stop projecting and give fair advice to my sister?
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How to stop projecting my problems and help my sister
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ak2014 · 01/05/2015 20:58
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