NC because i am ashamed and i will get over it but i've fucked up.
my exP and i broke up in 2013. I went no contact and life continued fine. I had a wobble in 2014 and set up a fake FB account to stalk him... (i know, i know!!) he rejected my request as he didnt recognise the person - obviously - and sent a PM saying "not sure i recognise you" etc etc.
I moved on, or so i thought. He did try to reach out to me i.e. on my normal e-mail / social media accounts during the course of the year but i wasn't having it.
So yesterday, I had the bright idea of messaging him on the previous fake FB account saying Happy new year. He messaged back saying "oh hi where are you", i'm now dying inside because a few days ago he contacted me but ignored him and so now i'm assuming he must know it was me with the fake FB account. Especially because he accepted the friend request and we had a bit of a PM chat in which if he put two and two together he would realise it was me.
I now feel awful because it looks like I've been stalking him for the past year at least! I'm hoping he has a few doubts that it might not be me but i just feel so awful. We haven't directly spoken in nearly 2 years so i'm really hoping that he doesn't think its me. I'm so annoyed with myself i could happily live under the table for the rest of my life.
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notagain2015 · 10/01/2015 16:36
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